Enlarge Image Goldstein has now been happily married for almost 10 years and has two small children. She says she has no qualms about her past, which she shared openly with her husband.
For the next few years, the focus of her life was playing mistress to several different attached guys. Caitlin Thorne Hersey Cathrine Goldstein, 40, is a playwright and mother of two who lives with her husband of nearly 10 years on Nude women Menno South Dakota Island.
But when she moved to New York City at 18, she was the mistress to many wealthy and powerful men, up until her early 20s. Here, she tells her real-life story to The Post for the first time.
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So I changed right away.
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The young girlfriend to show off to their friends.
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If I could tell married women something, it would be to get out there and live your lives.
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I think if women knew that, it would empower them so. I was young and single. I merely seized an opportunity.