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Although the sex ratios for African Americans have historically, on average, been low, the sex ratio of noninstitutionalized Black men to their female counterparts. The problem was that I had serious inhibitions about transgressing against the ideas about racial exclusivity in sexual matters which now make up the mainstream. She told me, without any embarrassment, that sex with a black man was an item on her bucket list, alongside other post-divorce “experiences”.
Except where noted, responses were essentially unanimous concerning data themes outlined. The women described many instances of deceit.
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A guy coming in and trying to get all of us to be on his team and be his beneficial. A few women, when reflecting on sexual experiences with Black men, reported nonconsensual sexual experiences. Many agreed that this was not a term of endearment and that often this role meant increased stress and higher risk for African American women.
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I find myself in a dilemma, however, because my illustration about one man who may or may not be representative is not sufficient to address your question. I don't want to exchange dissections of each other's arguments pointless and antagonizingbut I would like to keep this discussion going productively because I think it is a really critical issue to grapple.
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