In one of my favorite scenes from American Pie, Kevin solicits relationship advice from the impossibly chill and all-knowing love guru, Jessica.
Women wants for younger men He needs help with his girlfriend Vicky, who's pissed because Kevin won't say the "L" word.
Jessica gives it to him straight: "You've got to either give her the big 'L' or the big 'O,'" she says.
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Translated, Jessica's telling Kevin to do one Woman looking casual sex Robertsville only two things: either say "I love you" -- or give Vicky a great, toe-curling orgasm.
I found out just how perfect Jessica's advice was during my freshman year in college and had my first orgasm with another human.
The boy I'd bedded was instantly my new obsession. Turns Single slut Bunnlevel North Carolina my experience wasn't unusual -- orgasms make women fall in love by rendering them incapable of coherent, rational thought.
But why? Well, because our brains don't know the difference between real love and casual sex at all. Here's how it works.
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Attachment bonding happens between partners during climax when the brain releases oxytocin fittingly called the "love hormone" ; a neurochemical capable of relieving pain, decreasing stress, and fostering feelings of closeness.
That's exactly what causes the after-glow high during "recovery" -- and the mushy feeling you have when you see or touch someone you love. Black womens in Columbia Maryland
No kalispell girls your Yosemite Village slut fucked and body confuse sex and love. It's science, OK? Tapping into pleasure centers is as addictive as any street drug An orgasm is the only thing that outranks chocolate on the list of things I love.
And now I totally get why. Scientists in a s experiment wired the brains of rats so when they pressed a button, electrodes stimulated pleasure sensors.
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The rats responded by pressing the button up to 7, times a day. Many of them starved to Seniors searching women seeking sex, forgoing food in the name of pressing that damn button.
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We're no different; willing to do anything to get that fix. Orgasms make us love-drunk.
We'll even go back for more pleasure when we know someone Naked wives in alabama. Local sexy girls bad for us; ditching logic in favor of getting off. Having an orgasm during sex is hard AF for us ladies As any female traversing the Land of Milk and Fuckboys will tell you, finding a guy who can get you off is about as rare as finding a good leather jacket in a thrift store.
The female body doesn't come to climax by the sheer will of two bodies bumping and grinding against each. The female orgasm Sweet women seeking hot sex Essen D�sseldorf more complicated than.
One in three women cannot achieve orgasm from penetrative sex alone, according to Planned Parenthood.
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Given this fact, it's no surprise that having an orgasm with a guy would make us feel clingy. We've accomplished an enormous feat! Letting that go would be a travesty.
We get attached to guys who know how to please a woman because it appears to say so much about who they are as people. After dating so many Free pussy Wilmington Delaware who don't know and don't care to learn about a woman's pleasure, finding one who does melts away doubts about his character.
If he cares about your clitoris, he must care about your heart, right? But your body doesn't know. Gigi Engle is a sex and dating writer living in New York.
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